Tuesday, April 9, 2019
DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WORRYING ABOUT SOMEONE WHO IS NOT WORRIED ABOUT YOU
You are the one who is always calling and texting. You are the one who is always doing little things to let them know that you love them. You are the one who always wants the two of you to spend more time together. You are the one who is always driving yourself crazy thinking about them. And what do they do? They never call, they're never home, they always have an excuse why they can't spend time with you, they always break their promises, and you are the one left feeling depressed and miserable. It is about time you start asking yourself why you are letting yourself go through this. You are the one that is in control of what happens to you. You are the one who is in control of how much of your energy you put into someone else. We have to learn to stop chasing someone who doesn't want to be caught. The problem is, it is more appealing, more fun, more exciting when we chase someone. We think we can wear them down and force them to love us. But it never happens. It can't happen. If you let them, anyone will pretend to be with you. They will take everything that you have to offer and leave you with nothing. And guess what? It's not their fault. You are the one giving away pieces of yourself for nothing in return. It is human nature to take what is given or what is offered. So you need to stop offering! You need to stop allowing yourself to want someone who doesn't want you. You need to stop spending all your time worrying about someone who doesn't care if you are there or not. You are worth more than that!